The Backstory
A few years ago, sleep went from something I never thought about… to something I couldn't stop thinking about.
When my daughter was born, my sleep unraveled — like it does for most new parents. At first, I blamed the obvious: newborn wakeups, toddler regressions. But even after she started sleeping through the night, I didn't recover. That's when I had to admit something uncomfortable: it wasn't just parenthood. It was me.
In my 20s, I could sleep anywhere — deep, uninterrupted, eight-plus hours. Now I was getting "eight hours" and waking up groggy. I could fall asleep fine, but I regularly woke up throughout the night. Because of these middle-of-the-night interruptions, I never felt restored when I woke up.
So I did what I always do with problems — I turned it into a project. I started working with my primary care physician and treated sleep like something I could optimize, not just hope would improve. And from that, I gleaned more than a dozen evidence-backed, physician-approved strategies for optimizing my sleep.
But here's what I've also learned: you don't have to change everything at once. Small, intentional upgrades compound quickly. I don't sleep like I did at 25. But I sleep far better than I did three years ago — and that didn't happen by accident. It happened by design.
